suprise.
I returned from meeting some friends last night and J was in bed with Min-ha. They were having sex. They werent even embarrassed by it. They just asked me to come and join but I said no and they just continued fucking. J didnt understand why I was angry. He is after all my boyfriend, but since we had already had a threesome with Min-ha he couldnt understand why i was angry. I just watched them fuck. Thats it. It was an awkward scene and I went over to spend the night at my Korean family's house. I couldnt tell them what happened other than that we argued. Now, I dont know if i overreacted or what. Was it really cheating on me? This is a wierd situation.
posted by Melinda @ 11:15 AM
9 Comments:
At 3:30 PM,
CarmenSinCity said…
Wow Melinda - I was trying to think of something witty to say, but all I can think of is how pissed off I would be. And, by the way, he's cheating on you. YES - that is definitely cheating and don't let him tell you otherwise.
At 9:26 PM,
Iakaris aka I.A.K. said…
Well, baby, hard to say. That's a tough one. I can see it from both sides. If you have a pic of Min and you that might clarify things a bit. Preferably at the scene of the crime, but whatever, I'm flexible. Very flexible.
If it cheers you up, princess, I am gonna post all about you again very soon. Right now its all poker stuff since the entire crew just got back from Vegas. But soon its right back to our little JapaHapa. BTW, did you learn how to play poker yet?
At 11:34 PM,
SirFWALGMan said…
Ummm.. Yeah, its one thing to invite someone to share your boyfriend, it is a whole other thing to just take him on your own. For sure cheating! I would never do that to you Melinda. Now that he has replaced you I would worry about the Fat Russian guy again.
One other thing: When you bring a girl home make sure she is not hotter than you!!!!!!
At 12:18 AM,
slb159 said…
"Did you learn how to play poker yet?"
Iak, you're priceless.
I asked myself that same question on the way into work today.
At 12:23 AM,
katitude said…
ah but Mrs Mookie, they didn't invite her until *after* the party started, so to speak.
Time to set some ground rules girl! Not cheating, but not playing fair either, IMHO.
At 8:58 AM,
mookie99 said…
I like his style though...most guys in that situation woulda went.."uhh, it's not what you think"...
This cat just kept plowing away.
At 10:17 AM,
kushibo said…
Melinda,
Yeah, he was cheating, but this is a problem of your own making if you hadn't laid down any ground rules beforehand. Time to make some now. He should have known better than to unilaterally have sex with someone other than his girlfriend without permission, but maybe he thought you had given him permission with that one weekend. Lay down some ground rules about this right away.
At 3:20 AM,
Eric a.k.a. Bone Daddy said…
I know all this stuff is fake and is part of the warped mind of IAKaris, what ever the fuck an IAKaris is anyway. But a cute story nonetheless.
At 11:05 AM,
Love_elf said…
Okay. So, I found my way here via my BF, Smokkee and his blogger-friend, the infamous Iakkaris. My thoughts, not that anyone cares, are that you are young and inexperienced in relationships. This is NOT an insult. Just the truth. Take it from me, an experience older woman (uh, 29-ish?), if he does not care enough about YOU to not fuck another woman BEHIND your back, then you betta be done with his ass. If you cannot draw a solid line in the sand of your mind to decide he was cheating, at LEAST decide that he is a betraying MF-er and YOU deseve better; everyone does.
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